Every now and then, my husband sees a little pig-tailed cutie holding someone's hand and sighs and says, "You never gave me a daughter." He's kidding, of course, but wondering what raising a child of the opposite sex would be like is a fact of life for families blessed with kids of the same sex.
However, for 77 year-old Charan Singh Panwar of India, not having a son weighed on him so heavily, he mortgaged his land, sold his buffaloes, spent his life savings and took out a credit card loan to finance fertility treatments so his seventy-year-old wife could bear him a male heir.
His wife, Omkari Panwar, mother to Panwar's two grown daughters and grandmother to five, gave birth Friday to twins: the longed for boy, and bonus girl who wasn't even mentioned by dear old Dad.
Said the ancient Pop, "At last we have a son and heir. We prayed to God, went to saints and visited religious places to pray for an heir. We kept no stone unturned and God has rewarded us. The treatment cost me a fortune but the birth of a son makes it all worthwhile. I can die a happy man and a proud father."
I realize that in some places, sons are necessary for the family's financial survival, but having sold your land and livestock for fertility treatments to have a son sort of defeats the whole purpose of free male labor. Not to mention risking the life of your aged wife, who probably wasn't given a lot of choice in the matter.
It also makes me wonder what fertility clinic and doctors who would agree to even attempt such a thing. In the photo of the babies (who were born by C-section) they have exceedingly tiny arms and legs and all up swallowed up by the large disposable diaper they are wearing.
And the life expectancy rate India is only 60-61 years. Who's going to be stuck raising these little babies when Panwar dies? I'm guessing it would probably be the grown daughters who weren't enough to make their dad a "happy and proud father."







1. I think this 70 year old lady and her husband are horrible GREEDY people just thinking of themselves and not of a childs future....they will be dead in a few years and here are more parentless children. They should be punished for child abuse. I dont care about modern artificial insemination, this should be used PROPERLY and should be banned to anyone over child bearing age. Isnt it bad enough a "man-woman" freak had a baby this week???? Give me abreak and lets think of the childrens future!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted at 5:08PM on Jul 5th 2008 by ann burkart